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The secret screening mechanism..... 16 May 2023 6:55 AM (last year)

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 What's up pickup fam.  It's Jake and I'm making some videos on YouTube now as Jake Payton.  I'll also be on linkedin, twitter (Click here for link to Social medias) , and starting to do some shorts on if I can figure out how to edit, etc.  If you're a ninja at this I NEED YOU so we can exchange services.  Currently I'm in North Carolina.  

Anyways, here's the video and I hope you like it..

Pickup Guy Approached Jake P. & Student... Poorly. 7 Aug 2022 3:50 PM (2 years ago)

Hey guys long time no pen.  

For whatever reason, YouTube has been on my mind a lot lately and I'm thinking of doing a video or two or a hundred.  Anything you'd like to see?  I'm thinking right now I might do a "Blogpost Series" where I go through all of these old blogposts and do videos on them.  What do you think?  Comment below.  

Additionally I wanna tell you about someone who did an approach on my student and I while we were in a set last weekend.  

So I'm coaching my latest client and a guy comes up and to our 5 set (me, student, 3 women) and just interrupts all of us saying "What's up everybody?"  

Then he stares at us all as if we're supposed to be his best friend, and I'll be honest with you... if I hadn't immediately thought he was a pickup student I'd have ignored him entirely, or worse.  Instead, I decided to pause and see what the group would do with the guy, and since everyone was warmed up and in a good laughing mood (because of me), they let him in.  

Later I ended up somehow standing next to the guy and I asked him "So how's the pickup going?" which is probably the least enjoyable question to get when you're new at approaching people.  Of course he's like "Oh what do you mean?" and I explained to him that I know what he's doing and I'm a coach so he can drop the oblivious act.  

So what is this whole thing about?  

1.  OPENING A GROUP OF 5 PEOPLE BY TRYING TO ADDRESS ALL OF THEM AT ONCE IS DUMB.  

2.  IF YOU'RE WANTING TO GET INTO A GROUP, OPEN ONE PERSON IN THE GROUP (GIRL OR GUY) AND INCLUDE WHOEVER DECIDED TO LOOK.  

3.  OPEN WITH IMPACT YOU IDIOT!!!  

Let's go through these one by one in a bit more detail:

First off let's chat about opening groups with more than 3 people in them.  When I first started approaching, I had heard that it's a think to just open like 8 people by getting their attention all at once.  Total horse shit.  I tried this many many times, and in fact I did it while coaching often, and it always turned out poorly because people just don't do this.  Alpha males don't do this.  

Here's what happened to me:  I made a damned fool of myself.  

The reality here is that it's a MUCH better play to just position yourself on the side of the group, wait for an opening, then open someone on the edge of the group.  If someone else starts listening to you then address them with your eyes and include them that way.  Then when you're accepted by those first couple people it'll be much more likely that you'll get accepted by the group.  

That very same night I was coaching and that very thing happened to me.  I chatted with 2 girls at the back of the drink like and they happened to be with two more who were adjacent to them.  They joined, the girls let them know "he's cool" and then all was good.  They loved me.  

Next up, opening with impact.  

Sorry guys, "What's up everybody" isn't going to cut it.  It's low impact and assumes FAR too much that you'll get compliance from the group you're opening.  The reality here is that if you're not offering obvious value of some sort (like maybe you look super cool or you have a couple chicks with you), asking people what's up and then not saying anything just pisses people off.  You know what I thought?  I'm like "So that's it motherfucker?"  

BORING.  

So open with some impact.  Talk about a funny situation you just saw, give a compliment, do an opener that's professionally scripted and has been proven to work well, etc.   

DON'T BE AN IDIOT.  

That's all for today guys, thanks for reading.  

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Nothing To See Here... Much Longer 17 Apr 2020 11:27 PM (4 years ago)

Hey guys, long time no pen.

I hope you're all doing super well and getting through this whole 'Rona bullshit without harm to you and yours.  Truly I do.

As for me, I've been holed up in my West Hollywood apartment for awhile.  First two weeks of quarantine for me were basically a daily beer and weed festival with occasional Netflix (if i'm honest I did watch the Tiger King lol), so that was fun for a bit.   I've been collecting some vinyl and enjoying my 70's McIntosh Stereo system to it's fullest as well, and no covid "me lung flu long time" for me, so I'm lucky.  

But!  As most things do, TV, beers, weed and sex got old and boring, so I started getting back to getting some work done.  I can report that I've done a couple cool things, and I'm working on even more cool things.

First off, some free content!  My older brother has decided to start his own YouTube show/podcast, so he asked me to do an interview about my journey through dating and business.  We chatted last night for a little over an hour and 15 minutes about everything from my first approach using Horsegirl to my current business situation.  It's a little personal for me to let everyone in on my family, but at this point i'm kinda like fuck it, let it roll, you know?

Click here to watch the video interview

One thing you guys might be interested in taking a peek at is that my brother is a total natural.  He was a 4-sport letter winner in high school and went on to get a college scholarship and try out as a punter for the NFL.

I've always tried to understand how he's so good at making fast friends with people, and I've even pitched him to see if he'd make a tutorial for girlfriend fast lane on jakepayton.com to explain what he's doing.  He's not a "conscious" guy about what he's doing though, so who knows if that'll ever happen.  One things for sure though, he can walk in a bar and be friends with new people in 5 seconds, the asshole!  I never had it that easy, and I'm anything but a sports guy.  In fact, growing up people didn't even call me Jake, they called me "DJ's little brother."  Fucking dicks.

Anyways, I think you'll enjoy the interview so that's why i'm posting it.

The next thing coming down the pipeline is i've started new or updated all my social media finally!

You can follow me on the major 7 platforms including NEWLY ADDED TikTok and Linkedin!  Just click on these links pretty pretty please if you would:

https://twitter.com/jakepulls
https://www.facebook.com/jakepaytonofficial/
https://www.instagram.com/jakepaytonofficial/
https://vm.tiktok.com/WqupAN/
http://linkedin.com/in/jake-payton-5969221a6
https://www.youtube.com/user/jakepulls

Other things going on...

So I've been still coaching a TON throughout this quarantine.  I've also been having some amazing long chats with an old Brad P. coach that we've been recording, and we're conjuring up a way to use the audio from them for content, so you'll see that coming through soon perhaps in audio or otherwise.  I'm finally to the point where I'm past the old girlfriend fast lane website woes, so now that the website functions without breaking I can focus on free content and growing the brand.  I truly hope you'll join me for the ride and be some of the first guys to help me grow.  Any time that you can share and spread the word you'll be helping this 13 year devoted dating guy keep going at it without dropping out or selling out.  After all, the reality is that there isn't another guy in the WORLD who has the ability to make girls approach him like I do, and I gave you guys that free content first almost 8 years ago in the "She's Not Even In the Fucking Room" Post.

But there's some bad news too...

This blog will stay here, but I'm planning on completely stopping writing on it.  To take it's place, I'm putting the blog right on jakepayton.com where I can re-write and perfect the old content, and you guys won't be hearing endless pitches from me anymore, lol.  I'm gonna give out tons of free shit, and the paid stuff will be for guys who want personal help.

In other words, I'm gonna try and grow up.  In fact, I'll be turning 40 years old next month (May, 2020).  But don't think that'll stop me from hitting the bars for the next 10 years and giving this shit a go for as long as possible.  With any luck my old crotchety ass will be wheeled into bars in my wheelchair so I can watch guys do approaches from the comfort of some space cart Elon Musk will probably develop soon for the geriatric.  HA!

So that's it for today guys.  I'd like to thank those of you who have been along with me in this past 13 and a half years now since I started coaching.  It's been nothing but wild, and today I was hunting through past nudie pics i've got and I was wowed at the amazing journey i've had since I was a super frustrated chumpy total NEWB.

Now i'm not though.

Cheers guys, I love ya!  Keep yourselves safe and stay the fuck inside!  See if you can masterbate on live chat with girls from dating sites until we can all get back into the bars.  I'll catch up with you very soon...

It's Alive! The New Girlfriend Fastlane & Black Friday Deal. 26 Nov 2019 11:21 AM (5 years ago)

Hey guys!  Quick message today that the new website is up and going and faster and better than ever. Please come and check it out.  You'll get about 50% off for Black Friday, too!  This is literally over for good in 4 days, so please do not delay.  See you in there!

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Here's the REAL MAGIC PILL You've been searching for. Not a joke. 8 Oct 2019 11:29 AM (5 years ago)

Yooooo guys!  Hi again.  I know it's been awhile.

Today I wanna talk about what's been on my mind lately, and it's likely something you've not heard before.  Spoiler alert:  I'm not selling you anything today, so just a good read.

First off, though, a quick update on the new website.  Yes, the new website is coming down the pipeline.  I had an unfortunate setback with a web developer and lost a significant amount of time and money, but I assure you I'm working through this problem and the new website is going to be better than ever...  (like, it'll have a homepage and it'll work without issues, lol).  I could still use some help though, so if you're a guy with more time and skills than budget, get ahold of me!  I'm searching hard for someone capable of video editing on Adobe Premier Pro and I need some graphic design, so if you've got those I'm happy to take you out and get you some women.  Email me at jakepulls@gmail.com if this is you.  It's a chance to get free coaching and get into my inner circle, and if your game is in my mind it's a very good thing.

The other update going on is that I'm about 90% booked out till the end of January right now (woohoo!) so if you want some coaching you can still get some, there are just not any full weekends available until February.

Okay, updates over.

Lately I've been thinking a lot about the evolution of game.  I've been chatting with some "older" students who have trained with every company across the board, and when they find out my dominance struggle theory they go crazy.  Not joking, they go fucking crazy and get super excited.

"You mean I don't just have to go out and say all these crazy memorized routines and hope they stick?"

Correct.

"Wait, but is this natural???"

No.

"So what is it?"

It's the ability to flex your creative muscle in order to create a dominance struggle.  And it's what I believe to be the single most important factor in determining how good you'll be with women for the rest of your life.  

Let me explain.

I'm sure many of you guys are listening to Joe Rogan's podcast, and to me the life of a comedian has many similarities with the life of a guy who is learning dating.  We both do "sets," and we both go through this ABSOLUTELY CRAZY task of flopping like hell until we ever-so-slowly learn our skill set bit-by-bit.  The end result is that to the layman you are just killing it!  You're prepared for any and everything someone might think in their head or try and do to you before they ever attempt it.  I can literally count down the seconds until a girl approaches me or re-opens me, and it's a symptom of the original "embrace and extend" theory that Brad P. taught me years and years ago.

The concept is this:  When you embrace the concept behind a routine because you've done that routine a bunch, you'll soon start to branch off of the original words and use the concept in different places.  This extension in your ability to use the theory opens up new doors to new things to say, and when you write those things down, you can repeat them forever and they always work, and it's because the original concept or theory behind the routine you learned still works.

Got it?

So what happens when you can do this with dominance struggles and how does that relate to the current state of game that's taught across the dating industry?

First off, it's obvious that much of the dating industry still teaches routines (myself included).  They're a great way to start you out and get you through the initial stages of overcoming your fear and being able to open and start getting attraction.  Cool.  The problem with this method of coaching was that students experienced extreme backlash from women when women "found out" that the student wasn't as charismatic as he was professing to be.  Often and expectedly, the routines were delivered terribly with poor facial expression, tonality, and overall energy, and it caused havoc.

Enter "Natural Game."

Backlash from what you could call really really unnatural game caused the industry to adjust.  Now the plan was to sell "Natural Game," which I can only imagine was some dumb "be yourself" shit that coaches tries to adjust to or something?  I'm not sure, I never jumped on this marketing train.  It's important to note though that GUYS FUCKING KNEW that pickup and routines were unnatural, even when those guys were not the most social guys.

Okay, so we started with super unnatural game, then went to trying to do the most natural game ever (read:  guys flopping super miserably).

So what's the end game here?  Where does the dating industry end up?

The way I see it, we end up teaching a way of gaming that absolutely appear natural in every way to the woman.  In other words, you didn't walk up from 20 feet away, you didn't say an awkward long memorized line, and you have plausible deniability that you're even making an approach.  In other words, should she accuse you of hitting on her you could EASILY make a quick and solid argument against that frame.  (quick for instance, if you said "Uh, you bumped into me lady.  Get over yourself.")

So what's the minimum amount of canned "game" we need and how can we make this process seem absolutely like "it just happened" to the woman?  What MUST we do and what can we absolutely not do?

Well, there are things that you absolutely cannot NOT do.

For instance, you can't NOT open (until you're at a higher level and you can do my "she's not even in the room" stuff, which for the record I've never seen another human be able to do).  To make your opening as natural as possible, it MUST be situational,  it MUST be something normal guys would say, or it MUST be a spin on something a normal guy would say.

Spoiler alert:  I already teach exactly this, and you can do it.  You already do.

Second thing you can't not do:  You also can't NOT continue speaking after you open a girl.  You simply MUST continue talking after your opener.  You talk 100% and she talks 0%.  This is the rule.  Be the guy you are around your friends and family who doesn't hold back in any way.  Show her 100% the true you.

That covers opening and the beginning of attraction.

Next up, what's the end-game of attraction?

News Flash:  It's dominance struggles.  Women screen first by seeing if your level of social dominance is even worth paying attention to, then by trying to socially dominate you for clarification of your value.  THAT'S IT.  Done.

Now we come to the interesting part of things, because if you're a guy who just doesn't communicate enough value to the woman in front of you, then you won't be able to practice dominance struggles.  She'll simply not respond to you and you won't get tested by her, and not you can't practice this most important skill in the entire world.  Womp.  That sucks.

So we need a method for practicing dominance struggles, and we need it to be natural and not routine-y.

This is where our creativity is necessary.

The task at hand for a guy learning dating is to be able to practice the dominance struggle "dance," and the minimum way we can do this is by giving you... you guessed it... a canned line!

Yayyyy, more canned shit... I know.

It's important though!  It's a very small, short line, and it's the ONLY line you'll ever have to learn, I assure you.

Remember earlier when I talked about embracing a concept and then extending it?  This small bit of a beginning script is the FIRST STEP you'll take towards gaining the skill set of CREATING DOMINANCE STRUGGLES WITHOUT SCRIPTS.

Now stop, please.  This is the single most important thing I can possibly tell you in your whole life.

When you can create dominance struggles "on the fly" or seemingly out of nowhere with a woman, and you can do so in the context of a role-play, you will never in your life struggle with women ever again.  

Let's talk about the IMMENSE benefits of this:

1.  100% Natural, because it's based on what you're already seeing, hearing, and feeling in that moment.

2.  MINIMUM AMOUNT OF "CANNED" or "SCRIPTED" LINES.   Literally it's one fucking line I give you and maybe an opener or two which have now become a few words you're already saying.  This is literally the minimum you can do of using lines.

3.  Allows you a platform for practice and development of your dominance struggling skill set (the skills you'll need your entire life if you want to keep a women or get infinitely many new women).

4.  Always maximizes your chances at getting attraction, because women use this screen to literally decide if they're attracted.

5.  Over time you develop your creativity more and more, and in doing so you become more and more "natural" in your appearance to the women you meet.  Yes, you're using a theory, but you're using it in the way YOU use it.  This means its 100% congruent.  You can't be "caught" doing this because it'll never come off like a line.

So that's it.  The "end game" for everyone and anyone in the dating industry will be to learn this simple formula of being able to open in a seemingly natural and therefore plausibly deniable way and then creatively start a dominance struggle (as a means to attraction) with the woman in front of you.

(Note here that when I'm talking about opening, I'm talking about obeying the first rule of attraction, which is that for a girl to get attracted to you, she has to NOT know if she could "get you.")

Also, for good measure let's throw in the 2nd rule of attraction (first time announcing this):

The second rule of attraction is that if a girl somehow gets the idea that she could have you if she wants to, you must CREATE DOUBT in her mind if you want to get that girl.

...and by doubt I mean real, plausible doubt, not just saying something like "whatever you couldn't have me!" or some other uncalibrated shit.  She must actually get the idea that she was wrong about her initial impression.

So that's it.

The "end game" for the dating industry gives guys who are learning about women:

1.  The ability to open in a plausibly deniable way so that the woman doesn't instantly think she could have the guy if she wanted

and

2.  The ability to learn and practice how to attract women using the woman's own screening mechanism.  

Do you know anyone else's method in the dating industry that accomplishes both of these?  I sure don't.

And by the way, these two points have EXTREME BENEFITS FOR THE STUDENT!

1.  When you can open in a plausibly deniable way, it eliminates approach anxiety!  When you don't feel like she "knows" you're hitting on her, how nervous do you feel?  Probably not nervous at all, right?  Yeah... me neither.

2.  When you can practice beating a woman's screening mechanism, you're like a comic working on his material over and over until you can creatively do this in a fun way for you, and there is no better way to keep you interested in the process.

It should be FUN to hit on women!

It should NOT be scary, anxiety-inducing punishment that makes you wanna stay at home, get high, order a pizza, eat it, then jerk off to porn while getting fatter by the minute, only to end up a super-alone creepy weirdo.

Cool.  So that's my lesson today.  Hope you liked it.

For more on this visit girlfriendfastlane.com or email me:  jakepulls@gmail.com

See you guys soon.

The Four Relationship Conditions 28 Aug 2018 8:44 AM (6 years ago)

If I'm honest, not a lot of things interest me in the dating realm anymore, because honestly at this point I feel like I've heard it all.  However, one thing that does interest me is creating brand new, profound ways to understand the dating process, and today I'd like to share one such realization with you.  

Help! My Numbers are Wood 17 Aug 2018 12:03 PM (6 years ago)

HEre's an old post I wrote in July of 2008:

The 90 Degree Rule & How to Stand When you First Meet A Girl 15 Aug 2018 3:09 PM (6 years ago)

RSD Tyler is WRONG. Here's Why... 9 Aug 2018 1:02 PM (6 years ago)

Since I'm going to start ruling the entire pickup community (one of these days  😒), I decided yesterday to watch a few videos on YouTube of RSD to get an idea of my competition.  I watched the latest video where Tyler is in Hawaii, another one with him and Jeffy in Vegas talking about how they're "old" now, and a third video that seemed to be highlighting several different cities across america an abroad.  Overall, I have to say I was impressed by a lot of things.  The settings, editing, and cinematography are amazing!  It makes me wish I had a budget for things like other people to work for me, lol.  But here I am 10 years into my career and I don't have that because I've never worked on my career really, I've just been having sex with women for 10 years... (hand slaps forehead...)

So although the videos were great, TYLER IS WRONG about the advice he gave the community on having a "screening frame."  I'm about to tell you why, but first let's discuss the concept so everyone is on the same page.

Okay, so having a "screening frame" when you're meeting women is the idea that you can meet women and give her the idea that you're screening her.  In other words, you have your choice of women and you're deciding if she's good enough.  In the videos, Tyler advocates adopting a "screening frame" when you talk with women, saying basically that if you can do that it'll help your game.  He does not offer up exactly how to do this really.  He does explain why it helps, though.

Personally, I love this concept of having a screening frame and it's definitely something I personally have.  In fact, it's the mark of a guy who has abundance, because when you have abundance you're actually screening for real.  To me this is evidence that Tyler has abundance in his dating life, yayyy.  As many of you know, Tyler and I have literally taught workshops side-by-side in many of the same venues for 10 years or so now in Hollywood, so we'll often chat even with each others students during workshops.  So I'm not here to shit on him or say he's not skilled... really I'm not.  He's put in the time and effort to get good and he's the real deal guy.  We get along quite well, sometimes even end up at the same parties, and we seem to commonly see each other around Hollywood.

The problem with just telling guys "go and try to have a screening frame and it'll help" is that the information is VERY poorly timed for the student and has little to no practical application associated with it that would allow the information to actually be used properly.  It would be like me just telling a student "Go try to be confident, it'll help."  Well, if you don't have confidence, or in this case a "screening frame" then it doesn't really help students to tell them to do that.

Let's go down this rabbit-hole together, starting with a concept called "information timing"...

"Information timing" is that idea that the only information that's going to help you grow as a student is information that you can apply at that very moment, and anything else will either go straight over your head or worse, it could hurt your game even.

For instance, let's say I tell a virgin all about how to aggressively kino (touch) a girl.  This information would be quite poorly timed for him.  It would likely be FAR over his head, and if he was unlucky enough to believe the advice I tell him enough to actually go and do some aggressive kino, he could have some very negative consequences.  He could get slapped or even arrested for some type of sexual crime, and obviously this would be a terrible result.

The same is true for this piece of advice Tyler gives, it's extremely poorly timed for almost the entirety of his students, and if they go out and try to do this, it's likely going to kill their game because in practice they will most certainly apply this information incorrectly.

Allow me to talk about my experience here first, then we're going to talk about practical application of this concept.

When I was coming up in the game I heard about the concept of screening a girl VERY early on.   It came in the form of a Mystery routine (that's the dude mystery, not "something that is difficult or impossible to understand or explain").  In the routine you tell the girl something to the effect of "Tell me three things about yourself that I would like."  --Ugh, just writing that makes me wanna puke, because I remember actually saying this to a girl and getting my ass handed to me.  I got a "WTF" look from a hot girl and she was like "Bitch, tell me three things I'd like about you, cause I don't see any right now from where I'm at."---  "oh shit..."  

So did adopting the "screening frame" help me?

Fuck... No.  

It didn't help because it was poorly timed information for me and because I didn't have a practical way to apply the information.

Now let's talk about what actually happened to me when I was learning game.

First, I went out and tried and tried and tried non-stop like 5 days a week (or more sometimes) until I learned all my basic skills and was getting numbers and a few dates.  Then I came to Hollywood (a huge culture shock for me being from Iowa) and spent 3 full months gaming before I got laid.  From there, Brad told me "I don't even wanna see you until you've got a rotation."  I think within a few weeks I had one, and then the very next week I went from dating 3 girls to dating 7.  This is what it looks like when you're starting to get abundance.

Now I had a time problem.

To me, 7 girls is manageable, but back then and for most guys it's not.  You start forgetting who is who and I had to start making myself notes on my phone of who each girl was so I could remember where I met her.  Try it.  Go try turning 100 sets a week into 30 phone numbers and then 7 girls you're dating and tell me if you need notes... I did.

What starts happening is that the confusion, lack of time, moral concerns, and everything else kick in and you're literally forced to start telling some women no.  You start not returning texts, telling girls you're taken, telling new ones you don't wanna date that you have a girlfriend, etc. just to get them to go away because you know that you don't have time for them and they're just not good enough for you anyways.  The only new girls you do have time for are girls who you deem "better" than the one or ones that you're currently seeing.

THIS IS SCREENING.

Screening came as a direct NEED from having abundance.  Once you have a rotation of women and you're having sex all the time, you simply won't have enough time for all of the women who want you, and you'll start finding ways to say no.

First off, you'll stop caring.  Once you've got your first rotation of three women, you'll be having sex with 1-3 girls every day and literally there is a physical and mental change in your entire being.  This is not something you can mimic as a beginner, and if you haven't experienced this yet I highly recommend it.

That lack of caring causes you not to feel a lot of the needs that you previously had that were causing you to act "weird" and have lack of success as a result.  You stop being as attentive to women, you stop agreeing with everything they say, you stop trying so hard, and you start to become more audacious about standing up for yourself and generally about handling things you're now starting to see as women's "bullshit" as I like to call it.

At this point, your results multiply at an exponential rate.  Things get easier and easier, and you'll experience HUGE paradigm shifts in your thinking from time to time.  Abundance and screening are first, and after that you can expect about 1-2 huge realizations each year I'd say, and I'm talking about Earth-rattling realizations that are so profound you believe there won't be another one... until there is another one.  Then another, and another.  I believe there have been about 10, maybe 11 times this has happened to me, and each time I think there's no way this could happen again.  "I'm just too far along in this process to not be done yet" I think.

Now I say all this all at the risk of sounding super-duper braggy because I want to illustrate fully the path you're on when you start to screen.  Again, it's a result of abundance, NOT a cause.

So can you "fake it till you make it?"  as Tyler seems to suggest?

Well, you'll NEVER be able to truly fake all the things that come along with true abundance... you just won't.  Women can smell this shit a mile away, especially the hot ones...

***Side note: A 42 year-old ex-10 (super duper hot girl who now is single and 42 for whatever reason) has a SERIOUS problem on her hands because she's used to screening for and getting guys who have abundance using her social dominance techniques, yet now her looks don't warrant attention from those same men.  Uh oh.

Now she's in a situation where she has trouble being attracted to any guy she can reasonably attain, because she won't be attracted to any guy who can't get through her screening.  In other words, she is only attracted to guys who are socially dominant enough to get through her screening, and her screening is now at it's best because at her highest level of experience, yet she can't attract those guys now because she's too old and guys who have that ability would just choose a hotter younger girl.

This is why women marry for money... because they can't get a dominant male anymore, so the next best thing is having a lavish lifestyle with a beta male whom they can control.  They reason that he's dominant to appease themselves in their mind because he's in a position of wealth, but this is mostly delusional.***

So back to faking your way through screening... lol.

So there are some things you can do, and these are things that practically can be taught using live coaching.  These are things like breaking rapport, showing outcome independence, sticking up for yourself, challenging her back when you're challenged, not accepting her frame, etc.  These are the skills you need to win a dominance struggle, and they can be taught as they come up situation-by-situation in live-game.

Oh wait, sorry, nobody knows what dominance struggles are yet...  (second forehead slap).  Dammit, why didn't I work on my business more and not just have sex all day everyday for a decade...

Anyways, moving on...

The point of this whole story is that if you're a beginner you shouldn't be worrying AT ALL about trying to adopt a "screening frame."  The reality is that you won't have one in the beginning, and that's fine.

Did you hear me clearly there???  It's fine!

Until you do have a screening frame for real, you can start learning individual concepts that you'll later have when you work hard enough to get the real screening frame, and those concepts will help you with something far more pressing:  learning how to dominance struggle with the women you meet.

So just to be clear, here is the process of learning pickup:

1.  Fix your fashion.  It's your ticket to the game.

2.  Do whatever you need to do to be able to start conversations with women.  Conversations are your learning platform for skills like attraction, etc.  Don't not open girls because you're working on your inner game.

3.  Incite dominance struggles in your conversations in order to learn how women screen so you can beat what they're doing.  Do this not and you'll spend a lot of time not getting screened at all and wondering what the hell to do in game.  (I spent YEARS that I could have saved if I had known this).

4.  Beat women in the dominance struggles you create and watch in amazement as you start to get attraction all the time and have sex all the time and create abundance in your life.

5.  Adopt a screening frame because you NEED to, not because you TRIED to.

6.  Write posts like this telling the top pickup "GURU's" that they don't know shit because they were working on their business for 10 years instead of learning their craft.

7.  Be jealous of Tyler's empire and the amount of people he can reach.

The End.

Okay, not the end just yet.  So I guess summing this all up, I just am annoyed that seemingly the "best" information out there from quite frankly the most well-known active coach is information like "adopt a screening frame so that she feels like you're screening her!"  

To me this shit is just sooooo old-school and tired.  It's the same regurgitated shit from 10 years ago, and unless you assist in teaching practical application, then really all you're doing is hurting your students by telling them some ill-timed attributes that dudes who are better than them have and beginners don't.  This is the same as just saying statements like "Just have confidence, dude" and it doesn't help anyone.  It just confuses people and demonstrates that we as a community of coaches can't do a great job for our students by leading them to learn the right information at the right time.

Instead of giving this advice out to people who can't use it yet, we should be talking about skills that beginners and intermediate guys can use.  Let's talk about skills that demonstrate social dominance and skills that will in-turn help guys win dominance struggles in-person with the girls they meet.  We should be talking about skills that get you the abundance of sex you need to actually adopt a real screening frame out of need, not a fake screening-frame that you want because we told you it's there when you're already good.


Okay, so that's all I have to say about that.  Thanks for reading...

The 90 Degree Rule 8 Aug 2018 9:14 AM (6 years ago)

The Entire Dating Industry is FUCKED! (Spoiler Alert!) 7 Aug 2018 1:50 PM (6 years ago)

Yep, you read it right, the entire dating industry is FUCKED!

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I WANT THIS MESSAGE TO BE CLEAR:  When you're with me, you're family.  I take care of my members and I over deliver... period.  I answer your posts daily with thoughtful feedback that's direct from me.   

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Rapid Socialization 13 Jul 2018 5:11 PM (6 years ago)

The Lesson In Front of You 12 Jun 2018 5:21 PM (6 years ago)

It's easy to dream when you start learning about women.  We dream about getting that one hot girl we like.  We dream about maybe getting a girlfriend or even a wife.  Some of us don't even dream about marriage cause we're too busy dreaming about threesomes and dating multiple women.

Regardless of what you're dreaming about, when we dream we're thinking about the future.  In fact, we're focusing on it.

So is focusing on the future okay?

Well, if you're the type of guy who seems to dream a lot and you seem to not be getting very far (or as far as you'd like) with your dreams, then today I'd like introduce the idea to you that your focus may be off a little bit...


First off, I think dreaming is great.  I also think that applying some thought and focus to your dreams is great as well.  It allows you to know what your future goals are and when you've focused a little bit on that then you can develop a picture of what you think your life will be like sometime down the road.  However, when we focus on the future a lot, I think many of us can easily get lost in that thought and miraculously we end up losing ourselves in our focus on our dreams rather than applying our focus to our goal in a daily, pragmatic way.

The solution to all of this is simple:  Focus on the lesson in front of you today.

If you're the type of guy who is thinking about how things might be a month from now, a year from now, 6 years from, or whatever it may be, you're doing it all wrong!  Instead, place your focus on what you can do in the next 24 hours ahead of you, daily, and I promise you that every single day you're going to get closer to where you want to be.

So what exactly is the lesson in front of you?

Well, the answer is that you don't know until it happens, really.  For me, I go out a few times a week and when I start approaching and getting reactions and feedback from women, I automatically start thinking.  I start processing what I did, how I did it, what I said, what the girl's reactions might have meant, etc.  When I process all of that information I try to look for patterns.  Did a few different girls say the same thing about me?  Were they all looking at a particular item of my clothing?  Did they all give me the same look when I said a certain thing?

That's my lesson.

I go out and take action, I get whatever results I get, and I try to learn whatever lesson or lessons were in front of me that night.

That's it.

I simply place my focus on taking action and learning whatever lesson or lessons are in front of me today.  When I focus on my next 24 hours, daily, and I remove my focus from some far off goal, I'm finally able to make measured, repeatable progress.

And guess what???

DUDE.  There are only so many lessons you have to learn before success will come your way!  In fact, I used to write up my approaches and my thoughts daily in a journal online and when I finally looked back to my first posts 6 months after starting this process, I immediately realized that I had surpassed anything I could have dreamed was possible in my life with women! 

In other words, my dreams had been completely inaccurate the whole time!  Now here I sit 10 years later WORLDS ahead of anything I could have dreamed possible, and it's because I simply focused on the next lesson in front of me.

So today I'd like to challenge you to focus on your next 24 hours.  What can you do to get closer to where you want to be?

Oh, and I forgot to mention that if you need a place to write down your thoughts and feelings about your approaches, I happen to have created such a place.  It's called GirlfriendFastlane.com.  You can go there right now, sign up, and I'll personally give you feedback within 24 hours on every single post you make.  Not kidding.  Here's the link:

GirlfriendFastlane.com

Nick Testimonial 17 May 2018 3:12 PM (6 years ago)

See, Here's the Problem... 14 May 2018 3:05 PM (6 years ago)

We all know that women "want" (or think that they want) long-term relationships, marriage, etc.  We see this idea repeated in mainstream media over and over, and women will even tell you to your face that they want long term relationships.  So then why is there a HUGE divorce rate in the US?  What's the huge problem causing this???

Pickup Mansion 2018/2019 11 Apr 2018 12:08 PM (6 years ago)

I've got some EXCITING NEWS for you today!!!

Years ago, guys would fly to Los Angeles to change their lives by joining the "pickup mansion."  They lived in a purpose built home for picking up women and participated in weekly theory sessions and once monthly weekend bootcamps.  Although the program was 12 months long, many of the guys stayed 2 or even 3 years just because they loved the atmosphere of going out with like-minded guys and having so many women around all the time.

Our success was wild...

100% of the guys got laid more than they dreamed of.  Many of the guys got married, got girlfriends, got multiple girlfriends, got rotations, became more successful in business, and overall every single guy grew leaps and bounds in his level of confidence.  Today our students run their own companies, travel the world, have kids, and some are teachers themselves.

That program ended as our industry started to see a decline in TV promotion and people started to wonder if pickup was a thing anymore.  In fact, if you're 21 years old today, you were 11 years old when the "pickup" industry was hot, and you probably wouldn't have even heard of this type of thing in any form of mainstream media since then.

WOW.

Well, I'm happy to say that right now there is a resurgence happening (at least from my point of view) in the level of interest in learning dating skills.  GirlfriendFastlane.com has been active for 6 months and people have been emailing me and texting me asking about the possibility of starting another program like the mansion program we had years ago.

The answer to the question "Will there be another pickup mansion program in Los Angeles" depends on YOU.

Right now I've got 3 guys who have been seriously asking me to start up the program, and it's enough interest that I've decided to get everything going as soon as everyone is ready.    We've talked about a date of January 1st, 2019.  However, I'm willing to start as soon as guys are ready.  After all, summer is around the corner and there will be no shortage of pool parties and bikinis in Hollywood.  It's already begun!

So here we go!  As of TODAY, I'm officially opening up slots for Pickup Mansion 2018/2019!  And as of today I'm officially taking deposits to reserve those spots.

The BAD NEWS:  Unfortunately you can't just send me money and get accepted to this program because I'm not about to let just anyone in.  The right group of guys will be motivated to change their lives, and I plan on creating a positive dynamic for everyone involved.  This means I must have met and trained you personally before I'll even consider your involvement in the program.  One exception to that would be if you get a personal recommendation from Brad P.  because he has trained you before.

The other bad news is that right now I've got solid interest from 3 guys, and I only plan on taking 4 guys unless we get 8 guys total (so that we can have two residences).  There are no guarantees on anything obviously, however if you are interested you should at least shoot me an email (jake@girlfriendfastlane.com) to ask me any questions about the program that you have.

The GOOD NEWS:  The good news is that there's still time to get into this program, and as of today there are slots open.  The other good news is that if you're interested in being a coach for me, this training program is the way to do it.  Think of it like college for pickup coaches in training.  Obviously I'm not requiring that anyone work for me, but if you're the type of guy who might want a future in the dating industry, this is the way.

The PROGRAM is simple.  You live with fellow students (not me) and we go out in the field to bars and clubs two nights per week.  One night per week we meet for theory and for arranging dates and doing phone game with the girls you've met.  In other words, this is NOT a one weekend per month training program, it's a 3 NIGHTS PER WEEK training program.  Oh, and full access to girlfriendfastlane.com and more importantly, ME.  That means text me when you need a text to send her, call me when you need a wing, and invite me on your double date.  We'll make your success happen.

Imagine fixing your dating life ONCE AND FOREVER.  Imagine never worrying that you'll be alone ever again.  Imagine a year of your young life spent in Hollywood living a DREAM that others can't or won't.  Imagine looking back when you're 60 and remembering that one time in your life that you WENT FOR IT.

THIS IS THAT OPPORTUNITY.  

A place specifically designed for picking up women.
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And much much much much more!

Email me and we'll jump on the phone to discuss details, availability, and start date.

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I can't wait for you to join us!

The Single Best Opener in the Entire World (And it's NOT "Hi"...) 22 Mar 2018 1:46 PM (7 years ago)

Today I'm going to tell you what the absolute single best style of opener is in the entire planet.  It's something I use (and you probably already use sometimes), it's NATURAL af, it's canned because it's planned, and NO GIRL will ever suspect just from your opener that it's something made up to talk to her.  The best part about that is you're not going to open girls and immediately have them say "I have a boyfriend" like you see in every YouTube video where guys claim the best opener is "Hello" or "Hi, my name is Josh" or some other terrible load of shit like that.


This opener is so good that I'm not using it almost exclusively, and I'm now teaching it as the FIRST and BEST opener a guy should learn.  You won't harass girls with it, they won't know you're hitting on them, and you're going to come in completely under the radar.

Yes, this means no more crappy openers.  Yes, this means less embarrassment.  Yes, this is very much easier than other openers, and yes, this means FAR less approach anxiety than you've ever had before.

So what's the opener style I'm talking about?

Functional With Followup.

So let's talk about it.

A functional opener is something people do all the time in normal, daily life with each other.  People ask each other the time, they say "excuse me" when someone is in the way, they ask each other directions, they ask for the nearest coffee shop or whatever place they're looking for, they ask recommendations, etc.

Basically no matter where you're at in the world, people are asking each other for help with things all the time.

You're about to do the same thing.

Now this is where the " with followup" part comes in.  When you use a functional opener like asking a girl for the time, it's not going to create any attraction... of course.  Remember though, women LOVE ideas like "We just happened to bump into each other" and "I don't know, it just happened..."  because they're glorified in movies and TV.  So what we're doing with our functional opener is just that... we're "happening to bump into each other."

Got that?

We are specifically creating the experience of just bumping into the girl because that's a much desired and fantasized about way of meeting men from a woman's point of view.

Okay, so back to the followup part.  Since basically the only function of your opener is to start talking  to the girl, you're going to have to get her attracted by your followup "material."  I recommend saying the next thing you say to the girl in a way that shows off YOUR personality.  Yes that's right, you're showing off who you actually are to the girl.  In this manner, her experience is to happen to run into a guy that happens to be a charismatic, social guy who seems to be quite comfortable talking to people and who doesn't seem to be too forward with her.

From your perspective, you open her and start into your followup material for a few seconds, then you simply watch for her reaction.  If she doesn't seem to like you, then no harm no foul.  Since you haven't obviously hit on her then you don't experience anxiety about it, and if you go away you don't feel like you got rejected.  After all, you just asked for the time or something then followed up with a few more sentences.

I have a format that I love to use for this followup material, and guys who are using that format are KILLING IT with women.  Now as you might be guessing, this type of a thing took me 10 years to develop and so I'm not going to give you that for free.  Sorry Charlie.

However, I have given you the basic plan for it...

Now it's worth noting here that I'm not going around to women asking the time all day.  Yes, I'm somewhat creative about what I say, and that's where experience can definitely come into play.  Guys who get great at using this format are guys who love looking at situations and reading how a woman might feel because of what's happening.  Women give clues to how they're feeling about something that happens using their facial expressions.  So often I'm watching a situation, seeing a reaction, thinking about how a girl might feel because of it, then I'm relating to her about that feeling.

That's my brand of functional opener, and it's the very best way to open on the whole planet.

Now many of you reading this know that I have a membership website called Girlfriend Fastlane, and you know that I teach and discuss EVERY type of opening style that people use.  And yes, they can and do all work at different times and for different situations.  Functional with my followup format is just my favorite one.  I talk about each opener's advantages and disadvantages and I discuss all of that in learning tutorial format on GirlfriendFastlane.com, and I also give my format for the followup material on the website.

If you're interested in that, there's no crazy marketing or bs.   Try it out and you'll see!  You'll get your first 3 learning tutorials where you'll learn how to flood your life with women, how to open girls in any and every way (including my followup material!) and you'll learn about how to design your life for maximum happiness.

And that's just the first month!  So if you like the website and decide to stick around, you'll get two more tutorials every month.  You'll also get weekly access to my LIVE Q&A sessions where I answer  YOUR questions each and every week, even if you're not there to attend the live video chat.  You'll also get exclusive access to our Facebook "connect" group where you can get to know other members, and you'll get access to the GFF Forum where I PERSONALLY ANSWER EACH AND EVERY POST!

That's right, no newb's answering things, just personal, attentive, well thought-out answers and direction for your progression through learning dating skills.

Still reading?  You must be interested, so here's the link:

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And don't worry man, if for any reason you're not happy then you're welcome to get your $$$ back and I'm not going to hassle you about it.  In fact, if for any reason you don't think my website has the absolute best information anywhere on the planet, I would encourage you to please go to whoever that is and get help from them.  But personally, I don't think that exists...

Need more?

Okay, okay... Join anytime through this weekend (3/22-3/25) and I'll talk with you on the phone personally for FREE for 30 minutes, just for joining (commonly I go over that, and I don't charge for that either...)

Okay, so that's it for today!  I'm off to do my weekly Live Q& A session for my members.  Hope to see you in there very soon!

Thanks for reading...

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Come see me speak in Chicago! 22 Feb 2018 3:11 PM (7 years ago)

Yo!  So i'll be speaking in Chicago on Thursday night, March 1st, 2018.  Yes, that's 1 week away!

This is a free event hosted by a member of the Chicago Lair, so if you're interested in coming, email me jake@girlfriendfastlane.com or jakepulls@gmail.com and I'll send you the details.

Hope to see you there!

The Sherlock Holmes of Pickup 19 Jan 2018 2:22 PM (7 years ago)

When you start a habit of approaching and that habit continues for years, one of the side effects of that habit is you start to be able to read women very well, even simply by looking at them.  I had a client two weeks ago who is a mentalist for a living.  That means he travels around from city to city doing mind-reading tricks on people for conventions or special events.  Anyways, he came to LA for a few days to train with me, and here's what he had to say about the weekend:

I arrived in Los Angeles around noon on Thursday. Shortly after arriving at my hotel, I received a phone call from Jake. Jake went over the goals for the 1on1, and we set up where we’d meet up later in the evening. The goals Jake had for me were not lofty at all. His goal for me was just to take me to next level above where I’m at right now. I was fine with this because it was realistic, and I wasn’t expecting to be great at pick up after 2.5 years being out of the game.

One thing I noticed about this trip that I was not as nervous for this 1on1 like I was for others. This is my third 1on1 since January 2014.

Jake and I met at a fast-casual restaurant for dinner. Jake and I talked about our history and how we both came into the game. I have been off and on for the last 10 years since my divorce. Jake’s stories were very funny, and I found it very inspiring how much he dedicated himself to it, as he says he is not a natural at this stuff. After about an hour talking, we both headed to the first bar to do some approaches.

When we left I didn’t feel very anxious about doing some approaches but as soon as I walked through the door at the bar I felt that nervous energy that always brings my state down. Jake and I took a lap around the bar. I noticed Jake was extremely social with everybody he came in contact with. He was definitely the man to know at the bar that night. 

After about 30-45 minutes I finally digged up the courage to make some approaches. The first two were quick, low energy, and went nowhere. The highlight of the night came when Jake pointed out a girl showing a lot of skin in the shoulders. We saw her leave her friends and Jake told me to position myself near a entrance way that the girl will have to come through when she came back from the ladies room. I waited about five minutes until I finally saw her coming through. I locked eyes on her, pointed at her hair, and delivered the Trading Hair opener. I don’t even know if I finished or not before the girl grabbed my chest, and then my hand and squeezed like she was really into it. She then walked away. I probably should’ve followed her but I was quite surprised with the reaction from the girl. That usually doesn’t happen ever!

I made a few more approaches but could never spit out the attraction routines after my openers. I guess I found it quite the achievement that I actually opened that I just abandoned the rest of the interaction. Not good on my part.

We went to two more bars that night and my approaches did not seem to improve at all. What I probably got the most out of the workshop was watching Jake approach and interact with girls. It came so naturally to him. Never once did it appear like he was spitting out routines. I saw him only open once with a routine and that was a pair of black girls with Trading Hair. They both were going nuts over it! Jake pushed the envelope a little too much with these girls and we eventually had to leave for another set. 

Jake spotted a Canadian girl with two friends and he opened her. He talked to her for a good 30-45 minutes with me listening in and observing. He fb closed her but could’ve easily made out with her. In fact, he even asked me if I wanted to see that happen but I misunderstood him and said “no, lets move on.”  I wish I could’ve seen this and taken it in.

Day Two

Jake and I met up at a Starbucks to start the day off.  We discussed what happened the night before, what went wrong, and what I needed to do that night to improve. He went over a few sexy stereotypes for me but we both agreed there really wasn’t one for the profession that I am in; therefore, Jake decided to go with a fashion strategy that is current, timeless, and has mass appeal. We spent the next 6 hours shopping for clothing all over Hollywood.  For me this was the highlight of the weekend.  Jake cared so much about picking the perfect outfit for me that he would constantly refuse the store clerk’s fashion advice.  Jake knew exactly what he wanted for and was determined to get it!

After shopping for a jacket, pants, rings, shirt, and shoes we finally had it.  Jake was so excited about what he created.  I was quite impressed too but it was so different than what I’m used to. We then headed to Jake’s barbershop to get my haircut and beard trimmed.  This was the finishing touch that I needed.  After all was said and done, Jake and I agreed that I looked like a totally different person and was ready for a big night out for some approaches.  We went out to eat, and then headed back to our places to rest an hour or two before going out.

I ubered over to the first bar of the night and met Jake there.  It was more of my style of bar.  The music was not as loud and not near as crowded. There were loads of hot women here though. Once again I had problems “self starting” with the approaches and Jake obviously knew it. I finally got pissed off at myself and decided to show Jake what I did for a living and opened a table full of Grecian girls with a mind reading effect. This blew their minds and immediately got me into state. When I got into state I opened a friend of theirs with Horse Girl and I was off flying for the rest of the evening. I made a few quick approaches before I ran into a hot blond with her almost as equally hot brunette friend with the Horse Girl routine. The blonde ate it up and I was locked in with these two for a while. I delivered the Whatever song and totally butchered it. Oh well, it was my first time doing it live in front of someone so I’m not going to beat myself up too much over it.  Jake came over and winged me when he noticed I started struggling. We talked for a while and eventually gave the girls my business card before I left. This was a huge mistake on my part as I should’ve number closed the blonde as I probably would’ve gotten in. I kinda wish we would’ve stuck around pulled these two but I had more work to do.

Most of the bars were completely dead because of it being right after New Years’. We concluded the night by going to one last bar. Nothing here to really approach. Just a bunch of old ladies. We concluded the night here.  Jake seemed very please with my improvement from the night before. I was quite happy with myself too mostly from how I did with the hot blonde at the first bar we went to
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Day Three

Jake and I met for coffee and immediately took an Uber to Santa Monica to do some game at an outdoor bar near the ocean.  This was a very nice place and the girls here were unbelievably hot and may have intimidated me a bit. It was time to put my new fashion and skills to the test.  Once again I had trouble self starting to get out of the gate.  When I did my approaches were very sloppy and I really seemed nervous.  Jake, on the other hand, was in his element. 

My education today was just watching Jake and taking in everything that he did with girls. This was the true education for me during the weekend. Where I didn’t do too hot with approaches, watching Jake made up for it because I now do or think whatever Jake does in any difficult situation I find myself with a girl.  It was at that daytime spot where I realized that Jake possesses a skill that left quite the impression on me.  Jake would look around the place with me and point to a girl, then he would tell me about that girl's past and present dating life and how she viewed herself, just by observing the clothes she was wearing, her body type, and the friends she was hanging out with.  This is a very valuable skill to have in my line of work, and I immediately referred to Jake as the "Sherlock Holmes" of pickup.

We finished up a that bar and went for some pizza nearby.  This is where Jake hit me with some sound philosophy regarding where I am at the moment. I was thinking too much on the negative things and what I couldn’t do instead of things I am doing well and where I am at NOW. We headed back to the hotel for a few hours rest before heading back out to Hollywood for some night game.

That night we returned to first bar we went to on Thursday night.  I didn’t waste anytime opening here because I wanted to finish strong.  The first approach was a blowout.  The second approach was a cute blonde with her black friend.  She responded very well, and I was able to make it through a few attraction routines before she wanted to see one of my mind reading effects.  After I finished the routines and did a little comfort game my state lowered considerably.  Jake held everything up for a while but I just ran out of stuff to say which is my biggest weakness when going out talking to girls.  We eventually exited the group thinking we would see them again later in the night (we didn’t).  The rest of the night was bad for me and Jake could tell I was really tired from the busy weekend.  We decided to conclude the evening with Jake telling me where I was at and what I needed to work on when I returned home.  Even after a bad final night I knew I could approach and do well in sets but the key for me was just self starting.

I highly recommend a 1on1 with Jake.  If you have trouble approaching like me, it is well worth just to go out and hang with Jake for the weekend and watch how he interacts with women.  I believe he could pick up any woman he wants after watching him this weekend.  He was able to give me every single detail on why my approaches were going bad.  He even gave me a few new routines to learn when I am met with certain contingencies during a set.  Jake also customized a few routines with me that go very well with my mind reading act that I perform regularly.  I am very excited to use these.
Since coming home I always think WWJD (what would Jake do) when approaching any situation.  I have had many problems with a girl from work the past few months and my first night back I continuously said and did stuff around her that Jake would’ve done during our 1on1.  Her behavior towards me that night was completely different and more submissive than ever before.  Well it resulted in me taking her home and making out with her, something I’ve rarely done the past few months during our troubles.  

Jake’s dominant struggles are the REAL DEAL.  I can’t wait to practice these because they are indeed a game changer.  Just the fashion makeover alone was worth the money in going out there because, as I learned over the weekend, it is truly your ticket to the door!  Women will look at you and take you way more seriously with a Jake makeover. Trust me! I know from experience!  I do believe we accomplished our goal of taking me to the next level which is giving me the tools to the toolbox to go out and approach and have success with it.  The key is just me going out 3x/week and 50 approaches a month.  It will be done and I can't wait to see where it takes me.  I will definitely have another 1on1 with Jake and I recommend you do as well!

Thanks for the review Chad!

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Frame Control The Cops (and women) While You're High 19 Oct 2017 2:49 PM (7 years ago)

Hey guys,

So last night I frame controlled the cops when they came to my place at 1:20am... and I was high.

In this week's 1 hour weekly Q & A session at GirlfriendFastlane.com I talked all about the experience and also gave some rock solid tips on frame control.

The first tip was when and how to give in., and what happens when you do.  Remember that when you are dominance struggling with a women (or the cops) to make sure to minimize the amount of time spent talking about your wrongdoing by being quick to admit fault when you're wrong.  This is not an easy thing to do, and it allows you to spend more time on socially dominating your opponent with their own mis-calibrations.

Now, what to do when the woman tries to abuse her now dominant standing over you is a totally different story, so if you'd like to hear more on that, the full story about the cops, and rest of my tips on Frame Control (available only to Girlfriend Fastlane members), checkout my weekly "Office Hours" live Q & A for 10/19/17 by simply logging into girlfriendfastlane.com.

Oh, and if you haven't joined yet then what are you waiting for!  We've got MONTHS of material already built up now for you to gobble up while you watch Game of Thrones and probably smack it to some internet porn.  In fact, there's so much material and training that you literally can't even binge it to completion!  And enrollment is open right now only to my blog readers (the public is coming soon), so hurry up and join now using this link:

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Anyways guys that's it for today...

Have a dating topic you'd like to discuss?  Comment below!  I'd be happy to give it a write.

And as always, Thanks for reading.

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