Bring back the garage tea, all is forgiven 13 Feb 6:28 AM (last month)

I’ve always understood the appeal of the Garage Tea. A quick Google reveals I mentioned the Garage Tea in one of my first ever blog posts way back in January 2010, about 47 internet years ago. It’s proof essentially that I invented the whole concept of the meal deal – letting your kids buy a random selection of snacks from the petrol station shop in lieu of a proper meal.

Back in 2010 a Garage Tea might have been considered the ultimate treat, but today’s kids are apparently a lot more demanding, not content anymore with a Dairylea Dunker, let alone, GOD FORBID, a homemade sandwich. In fact, new findings by holiday platform selfcatering.co.uk have found that children aged between 9-14 years are flatly refusing home-made sandwiches or wraps when travelling by car on a UK getaway.

What do they want instead though? According to the research, they are insisting on a Greggs, McDonalds or Pret while on the move.

A PRET??

A Pret to me is the sort of food I used to eat if I happened to be in London for work and felt justified in spending £4 on a yogurt. A Pret is definitely NOT the sort of food you feed your kids on a car journey. Questioning more than 2,100 parents on its platform, though, selfcatering.co.uk found most (76%) said that sandwiches are often left uneaten, with just over half (52%) of parents giving in to demands for shop and cafe-bought fixes just so their children would eat and not get hangry on their travels.

Nutritional Therapist Elizabeth Wall CNM, DipAIT, said: “It’s worrying that children are snubbing home made food for other options. It is crucially important for children (specifically school-age children) to receive adequate nutrition and to meet the recommended intake levels of all essential vitamins and minerals.

“Turn back the clock 15 years ago and I’m sure it would be a very different scenario, where children would eat and appreciate the snack packs prepared for them on a long journey. In today’s society, children are increasingly exposed to social media platforms and advertisements which can all influence poor food choices.

YOU ARE RIGHT ELIZABETH. Turn back the clock exactly 15 years to January 2010 and my kids had likely never even heard of Pret and they were certainly more than happy with their car sandwiches, or, if they were lucky, their Garage Tea. Expectations were low back then, kids easier to please. Ah, the good old days.

This February, 1,700 families questioned in the survey are planning on getting away in the UK and admitted to needing to tighten their financial belts where possible in a bid to cut down on costs. How on earth are they meant to do that with kids in the back demanding things like hummus and avocado wraps?

According to the research though, the car journey to and from their holiday destination, however, is not among the line up of things they’re prepared to cut back on, with many stating that a harmonious journey is among the top priority of things to get their holiday off on the right track.

Richard Young, CEO of selfcatering.co.uk said: “Food and holidays go hand in hand and our research certainly reveals how much parents are now relying on bought food for the start of a happy holiday.”

Bring back 2010 I say.

The survey was conducted via the Selfcatering online portal between 17-January – 5th February, 2025.

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3 formative means of helping children become more worldly 4 Feb 3:45 AM (last month)

There’s a common misconception that states it’s the job of any parent to define and mold their children to become healthy adults. Of course, in some respects, like setting boundaries, that much is true.

But it would be much more accurate to state that parenthood is about helping our children become more complete versions of themselves, and helping to highlight their natural strengths and healthy personality traits. We all have good and bad in us of course, and so the parents job is to highlight the former and downplay the latter.

For example, a child may have a natural predisposition to sharing, but also a quick temper, and the task of parenthood is to help them always try and lean towards the foremost virtue, and learn how to control the latter. This doesn’t mean shaping their personality, it means helping it grow in the best way, as you might guide a climber plant up a wall.

Another important responsibility, much like this, is to help our children become more familiar with the world around them, the world they’ll eventually grow into an independent adult within.

Let’s explore how to do that:

Help Them Look After A Pet

You don’t have to leave your home for half the year to show them the world, sometimes you bring it home. Helping your child look after a lovely pet like their first puppy can be formative for a child, because it teaches them responsibility, love, and also helps train out a fear of dogs or a concern about them. It also makes them feel confident around animals which isn’t an unhealthy attitude to take, within obvious boundaries of safety. A pet can also increase the mental health of your little ones, and can help them develop a more attuned sense of empathy.

Head On Family Vacations

These don’t have to be huge and expensive affairs, and you don’t have to leave the country, so don’t think you’re providing lesser to your child if you go camping by the coast instead of heading abroad each year. Moreover, well-curated family adventure holidays can be fantastic, because they help you take the planning out of the event and let you enjoy a great novel experience with your kids. When they feel curious, happy, and have fun outside of their comfort zone, they won’t feel so insular. This is important in a world that tries to pretend everything we need is on the television screen or behind a broadband connection.

Help Them Sustain Friends

It’s more than appropriate for a parent to guide which friends and connections their child makes, as perhaps you’re not too fond of a given family in their class and would rather de-emphasize those connections. Most parents do this, so don’t worry. But helping them sustain healthy friends, including playdates, organizing sleepovers (after being certain of their safety), and birthday parties (even if they’re very modest) can be great for a child, especially as they build connectons and histories with their classmates. It’s even more important if you move often.

With this advice, we hope you can help children become more worldly going forward, in the healthiest way.

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Gardening as Self-Care: How to Nurture Yourself While Growing Flowers 20 Jan 11:29 PM (2 months ago)

Life as a mum can be a whirlwind of endless to-do lists, school runs, and trying to squeeze in a moment for yourself. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed, but finding time for self-care is crucial—and it doesn’t always have to involve a bubble bath or a book. Gardening is a surprisingly therapeutic way to nurture your mental health while creating something beautiful for your home and family.

Here’s how getting your hands a little dirty can help you find balance, along with some simple tips to get started.

Why Gardening is Perfect for Self-Care

It Grounds You in the Present
Gardening encourages mindfulness by bringing your focus to the here and now. From the feeling of soil between your fingers to the gentle rhythm of planting, it’s a natural way to relax and escape daily stresses.
It’s a Creative Outlet
Designing your garden, choosing colours, and planning where to plant each flower lets you channel your creativity. Even a small patch of soil can become your canvas!
It Connects You with Nature
Spending time outside surrounded by greenery and blooms can do wonders for your mood. Studies show that even 20 minutes of gardening can reduce stress and anxiety.

Getting Started: The Easy Way

You don’t need a massive garden or hours of free time to start enjoying the benefits of gardening. Here are a few beginner-friendly tips:

Start Small: If you’re new to gardening, opt for a few potted plants or a small section of your garden. You can find pre-grown flower plants that are easy to care for and instantly brighten your space.
Plant from Seeds: There’s something magical about watching a tiny seed transform into a vibrant bloom. If you have the patience for the process, try growing your garden from flower seeds. It’s affordable and incredibly rewarding!
Pick Low-Maintenance Options: To avoid feeling overwhelmed, choose flowers that thrive with minimal attention, like marigolds, petunias, or lavender.

Make Gardening a Ritual

Turn gardening into a regular self-care practice by dedicating a specific time each week to tend to your plants. Whether it’s early morning or a quiet weekend afternoon, use this time to unplug, breathe deeply, and focus on the joy of nurturing life.

Bonus: Share the Experience

Gardening doesn’t have to be a solo activity. Involve your children in planting seeds or let them help water the plants. Not only will it teach them patience and responsibility, but it will also create memories you’ll all cherish.

If you’ve been looking for a way to recharge your batteries and make your surroundings more vibrant, give gardening a try. With just a little effort, you’ll be rewarded with a peaceful mind and a garden full of blooms.

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Gardening as Self-Care: How to Nurture Yourself While Growing Flowers was first posted on January 21, 2025 at 9:29 am.

London with Littles: A Survival Guide for Parents Visiting the City 18 Dec 2024 4:43 AM (3 months ago)

London is indeed a world unto itself, and this major metropolitan area caters to more than eight million tourists each year. While business travellers abound, we need to remember that many of us will instead arrive with our families for a much-needed holiday. The only possible issue is that it can be challenging to keep younger children entertained during your stay. Are there any parenting hacks that will help to ease your burden? Let’s examine some interesting suggestions so that your little ones can enjoy all that London has to offer.

Bus Tours of London

There are plenty of child-friendly bus tours that families can access, and these can be great ways to pass the time as opposed to roaming the streets on foot. Bus excursions provide plenty of detailed information, and some (such as London Duck Tours) are extremely popular with younger children. Parents might even learn something new along the way!

Carefully Consider Your Accommodations

Another important consideration to address well before your departure involves where you will be staying in London. The vast majority of parents wish to enjoy a combination of privacy, practicality, and feelings of a “home away from home”. Consider the numerous aparthotels offered by londonservicedapartments.co.uk to avoid the rather generic services associated with franchised properties. These residences are also excellent ways to unwind after a long day out and about. There are numerous locations to rent throughout the greater London metropolitan area, so convenience will never be an issue.

Madame Tussauds

It would be a mistake to believe that Madame Tussauds wax museum is solely intended for adults. On the contrary, this location is an excellent way to captivate the imagination of a child. Let’s also remember that it represents an entertaining option if the weather outside happens to be less than agreeable. One of the newest additions to Madame Tussauds is the Marvel 4D Movie Experience; a sure-fire way to capture the attention of any youngster who cannot get enough of superhero films.

Open-Air Bliss

What if you wish to escape the hustle and bustle of the city centre? Why not instead take your child to one of the many family-friendly parks that have come to define London? These locations are particularly popular with visitors:

James’ Park
Brockwell Park
London Fields
Hampstead Heath
Crystal Palace Park

Of course, always be sure to check the weather forecast in advance, and to dress appropriately.

Lasting Memories for Any Age

A trip to London with the family can be a great way to introduce your little ones to the outside world. However, parents still need to plan ahead if they hope to keep younger minds entertained. The suggestions mentioned above are sure-fire ways to ensure an unforgettable experience, and to fully enjoy all that this eclectic city has to offer.

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Our top tips for a last minute caravan holiday 18 Dec 2024 4:39 AM (3 months ago)

Planning holidays out well in advance is all well and good, but have you ever considered the benefits of taking a more spontaneous holiday? What better way to really embrace the spirit of adventure than by packing your bags and heading out the door without spending weeks upon weeks planning it all out?

You can have holidays that are just as fun and memorable without needing to over plan, so consider taking a last minute caravan holiday as your next trip away. If you’re at all tempted by the idea, we’ve put together our top tips for this sort of holiday to really win you over to the concept of a spontaneous caravan adventure.

Be flexible with where you want to go

One of the first rules of taking a more last minute holiday is embracing a sense of freedom. Rather than sticking to places you already know or have been to before, consider trying somewhere that’s a little more off the beaten path.

It’s much harder to get a booking at caravan parks in popular locations at short notice – but it’s not impossible, as many parks offer last minute deals to fill up any empty spots they have left over. What that means is that a more spontaneous holiday is the perfect opportunity to stretch your wings and find hidden gems of locations.

Pack smart and light

Packing is often one of the most stressful parts of going on holiday, especially if you’re worried about forgetting something essential. It’s easy to give into the temptation of overpacking, just in case, but that’s a trap you should try to avoid.

You don’t want to be wasting space in your caravan with unnecessary luggage, so make sure that you pack relatively light for your trip. Take a good look at what you’re putting into your bags and think twice about bringing anything that isn’t essential.

Another good tip is to use packing cubes to make the absolute most of the space in your bag. It’s also a great way to stay organised and know exactly where you put everything!

Consider off-peak travel

We know we said not to plan much, but last minute holidays are definitely easier to pull together in the off season. By avoiding peak travel season, you’ll have better chances of securing a spot in a caravan park, particularly in the more popular regions of the country.

Something else to consider is the idea of a midweek holiday. Obviously, taking a holiday around the weekend has plenty of benefits, but you could find that it’s a lot more budget-friendly to visit the same place during the week. There are often fewer crowds during the midweek, as well as potential offers to take advantage of.

Keep entertainment simple

Caravan holidays are often used as a chance to get back to nature, but that doesn’t mean you can’t bring along some entertainment of your own. In fact, it’s a very good idea to have at least some things to do if the weather doesn’t cooperate and the heavens open.

Board games are always a good shout for spending a cozy evening in the caravan, as well as books. You can always pre-download a selection of films or TV episodes onto a tablet or smartphone if you want to lounge with some popcorn during the evenings.

Go with the flow

This is especially important on a spontaneous holiday where you haven’t had the chance to plan things out in advance. Going with the flow is often the best way to get the most out of your holiday, as you may discover things you’d otherwise never have known about.

Stay open to change and be willing to adapt to keep the positive, adventurous mindset going.

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Escape the routine and avoid the stress of overplanning by heading off on a last minute caravan holiday. You never know what new memories you’ll make and what adventures you’ll have if you embrace a more spontaneous holiday outlook!

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Top Picks for Solo Adventures in Europe with RoutePerfect 4 Dec 2024 12:20 AM (4 months ago)

From historic cities to beautiful towns, modern attractions, and amazing scenery, Europe has many locations for lone visitors. Europe’s abundance of choices makes it one of the ideal countries to investigate whether your interests are in art, history, culture, or outdoor adventures. Travel alone lets you follow your agenda, find hidden treasures, and engage in the local culture without interruptions. But given so many options, organising a solo trip to Europe can be intimidating. Route Perfect helps you arrange a vacation that fits your interests and requirements.

Creating a Customised Itinerary

Organising a solo European journey entails choosing the ideal locations for your interests. Given the number of fantastic sites to visit, you have to reduce your choices. A powerful trip planner website, Route Perfect, lets you accomplish exactly that. Whether your interests are in food, history, art, or nature, this tool helps you to design a customised travel schedule that meets them. Just decide the cities or areas you want to visit; it will then suggest the finest events, sites, and activities that fit your calendar. Before starting your travels, don’t forget to check your Schengen visa appointments, as this is an essential step for any non-EU travelers planning to visit multiple countries in Europe.

Discovering Iconic Cities

The opportunity to visit world-class cities, each with a different vibe, is among the best aspects of European solo travel. Paris, for instance, presents a mix of famous sites, including the Louvre and the Eiffel Tower, as well as little areas like Montmartre and Le Marais. Travelling alone allows one to savour the freedom of meandering around the city and take in the artwork, culture, and cuisine at their own speed. Discovering ancient sites, including the Colosseum, the Roman Forum, and the Pantheon in Rome, helps you to bring history to life.

Other famous European towns are Amsterdam, with its lovely canals and rich cultural legacy, and Barcelona, with its amazing architecture and thriving gastronomic scene. RoutePerfect allows you to create an itinerary emphasising the towns and sites that are rapidly fit for your interests, guaranteeing that every journey stop will be unforgettable.

Exploring Off-the-Beaten-Path Destinations

Although major cities like Paris and Rome are must-see locations, some of the most fulfilling experiences in Europe are discovered in little towns and villages. Off-the-beaten-path locations offer a more personal and unique experience from the mediaeval appeal of Prague to the coastal splendour of Cinque Terre. Smaller communities like Hallstatt in Austria or the beach town of Positano on the Amalfi Coast have breathtaking vistas, rich history, and peaceful havens that let one get closer to the area’s way of life.

Since these less-known locations are less crowded and enable a more real experience, solo visitors sometimes find they provide greater freedom. Route Perfect allows you to include these hidden treasures into your schedule and so design a more individualised and satisfying journey.

Embracing New Experiences

One of the pleasures of solo travel is the chance to embrace fresh experiences and challenge your comfort zone. From cooking classes in Tuscany to wine-tasting in Bordeaux to mastering the craft of glassblowing in Venice, Europe presents a wealth of chances to try something different. There are plenty of events to make your solo vacation unforgettable, whether your goals are to meet other travellers or explore at your own speed.

Europe offers a range of outdoor pursuits for people looking for adventure, including kayaking on the Croatian islands, cycling over the Dutch countryside, or trekking in the Swiss Alps. Every nation has an experience waiting for you; RoutePerfect helps you incorporate activities fit for your particular travel style.

Flexibility and Freedom

The freedom solo travel offers is among its better features. You have total control over your schedule, unlike on group trips. Route Perfect lets you design a thorough schedule with flexibility for spontaneity. This platform allows you to change your vacation as you go, whether you choose to visit a museum you hadn’t intended to visit or spend an extra day seeing a small town.

Having control over your travel schedule helps single visitors maximise their time in Europe and ensure they don’t miss any significant events. Your trip will be especially yours, from famous locations to hidden treasures.

Conclusion

Solo travel in Europe presents a fascinating blend of adventure, culture, and personal discovery. Planning a trip that fits your particular requirements and interests has never been simpler with tools like Route Perfect. Europe presents many opportunities for single visitors, whether their trip is to famous cities, smaller towns, or fresh experiences. Europe is the perfect place for everyone wishing to discover things on their own terms since it allows you to change your schedule and make your trip.

Using Route Perfect as your guide can help you design a trip that captures your tastes and hobbies, guaranteeing that your solo vacation is exactly what you desire.

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Becoming a Dentist: 6 Steps To Start Your Child’s Journey 25 Sep 2024 12:09 AM (6 months ago)

Many kids dream of their future careers. Some want to be astronauts, others scientists, and a handful might want to become firefighters. And perhaps, your child might dream of becoming a dentist one day.

Like most healthcare occupations, treading the path of a dentist takes years of preparation. So, if your little one is determined about their dream dentistry career, your responsibility as their parent is to support them. But how exactly do you clear the road for them?

This guide outlines steps to begin your child’s journey to dentistry. Ready to jumpstart their potential future? Keep reading!

1. Help Them Prepare Academically

A shot at dental school begins with excellent grades. So, advise your child to focus on core subjects like science, math, and English, but don’t let them ignore their other classes either. The admissions committee will look at your child’s performance in these subjects to see if they have a future in dental care. Stellar grades will also give your kid better chances at landing fulfilling dental internships as a pre-dentistry undergraduate.

Absorbing all that knowledge can also be fun. So, encourage your child to join school clubs or organizations related to science, health, or community service. They could also join science fairs and math competitions to develop their critical thinking skills.

Volunteering at local dentists or hospitals can also provide priceless hands-on experience and exposure to the dental field. Meanwhile, participating in leadership roles can help your child boost skills like communication, teamwork, and time management.

2. Nurture Early Interest

As soon as your child shows some interest in becoming a dentist, encourage them to ask questions during their dental appointments. You could also watch kid-friendly dental-themed shows or films together to learn more about the practice.

Explore dental-related crafts or experiments, too. STEM activities related to dentistry—such as building models of teeth or learning about the science behind dental materials—can add further knowledge and interest.

But part of nurturing their interest is teaching your child basic dental hygiene tasks, such as brushing their teeth, gargling with mouthwash, or flossing. They should understand its importance as early as possible, not only to build a foundation for correct dental care but also to promote positive oral health.

3. Encourage Shadowing and Mentorship

Do you think shadowing is only for pre-med or pre-dental school students? Kids can shadow, too! So, consider connecting with local dentists and ask if your child can observe their daily routines. This way, they can be exposed to the different aspects of dental practice, such as procedures and patient interactions. This experience would be a great summer holiday activity for your child and help them determine if becoming a dentist is the right career path for them.

A strong relationship with a mentor also provides valuable guidance and support for your future young dentist. By the time your child gets older, they can discuss career paths, educational requirements, and potential challenges.

4. Explore Dental Schools

When choosing a dental school, consider factors like location, cost, and reputation. Look for dental schools in your area or region, but feel free to check international options as well. Doing this allows you to compare their admission requirements, what they teach, and their facilities and see if the school is the right fit for your kid.

Your child should also meet with representatives from different dental schools to make informed choices for their future. Learn about how to apply, financial aid options, and the other areas of dentistry they specialize in.

5. Prepare for the Application Process

Getting ready for the Dental Admission Test (DAT) is important early on. So, have your child practice sample questions and time management strategies. If necessary, provide resources and face-to-face or online tutoring to ensure they are well-prepared.

You can ask teachers, mentors, or dentists who know your child well to write letters of recommendation, too. These letters can highlight their academic achievements, character, and potential.

Lastly, a strong personal statement can help your child stand out. So, guide them in writing one that emphasizes their passion for dentistry, their goals for the future, and any relevant experiences or qualities. After that, carefully proofread and edit the statement to ensure it is well-written and error-free.

6. Map Out Dental School Costs

Pursuing a dental degree is a costly undertaking. So, to help cover the cost of dental school, research scholarships, grants, and student loans. Create a budget as early as now to estimate expenses. Your child could also consider part-time jobs or work-study programs while studying for additional financial support.

A thriving dental career offers long-term financial benefits, though. So, when your child is old enough, talk about the earning potential and job satisfaction. This information places you and your child on the same page concerning the financial aspects of their dental education.

Final Thoughts

Becoming a dentist is a tough road for your child to take, but it leads to plenty of worthwhile opportunities, especially if they love helping people. As a parent, you can go the extra mile for them. Before they’ll receive support from teachers and like-minded colleagues, they’ll look to you for guidance.

Stay motivated as they are, and be open to new possibilities! With dedication and hard work, your child can achieve their dream of becoming a successful dentist.

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How to Plan the Ultimate Single Parent Holiday Without the Stress 20 Sep 2024 9:13 AM (6 months ago)

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Travelling as a single parent can often feel like a monumental task. Between juggling the logistics, managing expectations, and ensuring your kids stay entertained throughout the trip, it’s no wonder many single parents shy away from planning a holiday. However, with some thoughtful preparation and the right choices, you can have a memorable, stress-free holiday that both you and your kids will enjoy. One brilliant option that makes travel easy is a cruise—where all the hard work is done for you. Here’s how you can plan the ultimate single parent holiday, with minimum stress and maximum fun.

Acknowledge the Challenges

The Balancing Act

First and foremost, it’s important to acknowledge the unique challenges that come with planning a holiday as a single parent. You’re not just responsible for packing the bags and booking the tickets—you’re also expected to entertain, mediate sibling squabbles, and handle any travel hiccups that come your way. Essentially, you’re wearing two hats: that of the planner and the entertainer. This can understandably feel overwhelming, but recognizing these challenges is the first step towards overcoming them. By being honest about the workload, you can better prepare yourself for solutions that will lighten your load.

Budget Concerns

Another concern that often arises for single parents is managing costs. Holidays can be expensive, especially when you’re the only one shouldering the financial burden. This can make finding affordable yet enjoyable holiday options more challenging. However, budget-friendly holidays are entirely possible with the right choices. Cruises, for example, often provide excellent value for money, offering accommodation, meals, and entertainment in one package. This makes it easier to control your spending while still ensuring a memorable holiday. You could also look at cheap cruises on providers’ websites. They have great discounts all year round.

Why Choose a Cruise?

Everything in One Place

Cruises are an excellent choice for single-parent families because they offer everything you need in one convenient location. You don’t have to worry about sourcing meals, booking activities, or coordinating transportation between different places. From the moment you board, everything from breakfast buffets to evening entertainment is provided for you. Whether your kids want to splash around in the pool, watch a movie, or play mini-golf, it’s all right there on the ship. This all-inclusive aspect removes so much of the planning stress and allows you to relax and enjoy the holiday alongside your children.

Family-Friendly Activities

Many modern cruises are designed with families in mind, offering a range of activities that cater to all ages. From kids’ clubs to teen lounges, there’s something for everyone. These structured programs give your children the opportunity to have fun, make new friends, and experience the joy of independence, while giving you some well-deserved downtime. Activities can range from water slides and swimming pools to live shows, movie nights, and even scavenger hunts. The best part? All of these activities are onboard, making them easily accessible and safe.

Safety and Convenience

As a single parent, safety is often a top concern, especially when travelling with children. Cruises offer a safe, controlled environment where you can feel confident letting your kids explore and participate in activities on their own. The ships are staffed with trained professionals who are there to provide assistance and ensure everyone’s safety. Whether you’re onboard or participating in a shore excursion, there’s always someone around to help, giving you added peace of mind.

Planning Your Stress-Free Holiday

Choose the Right Destination

When selecting a cruise, it’s important to choose the right destination for your family. Think about locations that offer a mix of activities that both you and your kids will enjoy. Caribbean cruises are popular for their stunning beaches, water sports, and wildlife encounters, while Mediterranean cruises offer cultural sightseeing, historical landmarks, and plenty of family-focused excursions. Make sure the cruise itinerary includes shore excursions that will keep your children engaged, while still offering opportunities for you to relax or explore.

Book Through a Reputable Provider

Booking through a reliable and experienced provider is key to ensuring your holiday goes smoothly. A company like Cruise 118 can help you navigate through various family-friendly options and offer expert advice on the best cruise for your needs. They also offer excellent cruise deals, making it easier for single parents to find packages that suit their budget. Booking through a trusted source not only ensures peace of mind but also gives you access to customer support, should you need any assistance throughout your trip.

Pack Smart and Light

One of the most stressful parts of any holiday is packing, especially when you’re doing it alone. Start by making a checklist of essentials, including swimwear, comfortable clothing, sunscreen, and any necessary medications. Don’t forget to pack entertainment for your kids, such as books, tablets, or travel games for the journey. Since space in cruise cabins can be limited, try to pack light while still bringing everything you need for a smooth trip.

Take Advantage of Onboard Services

Once you’re onboard, make the most of the cruise’s services designed to make your life easier. For example, most cruise lines offer kids’ clubs or daycare services, where your children can participate in fun, supervised activities while you enjoy some downtime. Some cruises even provide babysitting services during the evening, giving you the chance to enjoy dinner or a show without the kids. You’ve worked hard to plan this trip—don’t be afraid to take full advantage of the conveniences offered.

Stay Flexible

While planning is essential to a successful holiday, it’s also important to remain flexible. Things may not always go as planned, and that’s okay. Whether it’s a change in itinerary or a last-minute adjustment to your schedule, try to go with the flow and make the most of the experience. The goal of the holiday is to relax, have fun, and create lasting memories with your children—so if plans shift, embrace the spontaneity!

Conclusion

Planning a holiday as a single parent doesn’t have to be a source of stress. By opting for a cruise, you’ll have everything you need at your fingertips—entertainment, safety, convenience, and plenty of activities for the whole family. Whether you’re exploring the Caribbean or the Mediterranean, a cruise offers an all-in-one solution that allows you to relax while your kids have fun. For the best family-friendly cruise options, consider booking through Cruise 118, where you can find excellent deals and expert support to make your holiday as smooth as possible.

Set sail today!

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Surviving after-school meltdowns 5 Sep 2024 6:13 AM (7 months ago)

Now that the kids are back to school, you might find yourself dealing with the dreaded after-school tantrums and meltdowns that can so commonly occur when children are tired from a hard day of learning a lot of new things in the classroom.

Post-school breakdowns are not at all uncommon, especially for younger children who may find it harder to be cooped up in the classroom for long periods of time, but you know what? There are lots of things you, as a parent, can do to make them less likely to occur, as you will see below.

Snack Attack!

Your kids have been working their brains and bodies pretty hard in the classroom, so it stands to reason that they may be feeling hungry when they get home from school, and you know all too well that hunger can lead to hangriness which can quickly lead to meltdowns. So, before you pick them up, take a little time to prepare a healthy snack like apple slices with peanut butter or some fruit and yoghurt, and feed them as soon as they get in. Hangriness averted!

The Magic of Downtime

After a day of structured activities, your kids are going to want to have a break from following so many rules. Obviously, this doesn’t mean you should let them run riot because apart from anything else, you’re probably tired from hard day’s work yourself too, but it does mean that you should try to let them play in a more unstructured way, such as letting them free-build whatever they fancy with their Lego or allowing them to doodle without having to stay in the lines or draw anything in particular. This will really help them to decompress and transition from school to home.

Walk and Talk

Sometimes, the best way to unravel those after-school blues is to get moving. Take a walk around the block, or if you have a dog, let your child lead the way on a walk. Physical activity can help burn off leftover energy, and the change of scenery can act as a “reset” button for a bad mood. Plus, it’s a great opportunity to chat about their day and any issues they’re not bringing up at the dinner table.

Homework Hygge

Homework doesn’t have to be a battlefield if you don’t want it to be. In fact, if you create a cosy and inviting homework area, with comfy chairs and all of the cool stationery supplies they will need, then they will find it easier to get their work done. Even better, sit down and join them while they work – they’ll love that.

Engage in Brain Games

Who said learning can’t be fun? Incorporate educational games into the evening routine to mix things up in a way that is as relaxing as it is brain boosting. For example, a family crossword session can be a fantastic way to wind down and engage with words and world knowledge together. It’s a subtle way to extend their learning while also spending quality time together.

Chill Out with Chores

Believe it or not, chores can be a decompression tool. Simple tasks like sorting laundry or setting the table give children a sense of responsibility and accomplishment. It also helps to make chores a predictable part of their routine, which can be comforting in its regularity.

Talk it Out

Communication is key, but straight-up asking “How was your day?” might get you a monosyllabic grunt at best. Try creative conversation starters like, “Tell me something funny that happened today,” or “Did anything make you feel really smart today?” This not only opens up dialogue but also steers it towards positive reflections or constructive discussions about their day.

Artistic Unwind

Encourage artistic expression as a way to decompress. Whether it’s painting, crafting, or playing music, art can be a powerful outlet for emotions that they might not be able to express in words. Plus, it’s a great way for kids to develop their creative talents. Discovering paint by numbers for adults online opens up a world of creativity, relaxation, and accomplishment. Whether you’re looking to reduce stress, enhance your focus, or explore a rewarding hobby, this accessible art form is the perfect way to unwind and express yourself.

Tech Time-Out

While it might be tempting to let screens do the soothing, try to resist the lure of the digital pacifier. Too much screen time can lead to a whole new set of mood swings. Set clear limits and stick to them. Maybe introduce screen time as a reward after more interactive, calming activities have helped them transition from school mode to home mode.

Journal Journey

Encourage your child to keep a journal where they can jot down their thoughts, doodle, or even stick in some photos or scraps from their day. Journaling is a great way for children to process emotions and events in a safe, private space. It’s also a subtle way to enhance writing skills and emotional intelligence. You could make this more engaging by having themed journal days, like “Madcap Monday” for writing about the silliest thing they saw or “Thankful Thursday” to note things they were grateful for that week.

Reading Retreat

Create a cosy reading nook in your home where your child can unwind with a book after school. Make this space inviting with cushions, good lighting, and access to a variety of books. Reading not only helps children relax but also builds vocabulary and comprehension skills in an enjoyable way. You can make this time special by occasionally reading together or discussing a book you both are reading.

Pet Projects

If you have pets, involve your child in their care after school. Whether it’s walking the dog, feeding a cat, or cleaning out a hamster cage, taking care of animals can teach responsibility and offer a comforting, nurturing routine. The unconditional love from pets can also be a great mood booster for kids.

Yoga Zones

Introduce your child to yoga by setting up a “yoga zone” in your living room. There are many child-friendly yoga videos online that teach basic poses and routines. Yoga can help children improve their flexibility and balance, but it’s also fantastic for mental relaxation and stress relief. This could be a fun way to stretch out those school-day stresses together.

Puzzle Pieces

Work on a large puzzle as a family. This can be a relaxing and brain-boosting activity to do in the quiet hours after school. Puzzles are excellent for teaching problem-solving and critical thinking skills. They also require patience and attention to detail, helping children develop concentration. Set up a puzzle board in a common area where anyone can add a few pieces whenever they feel like it. It’s a wonderful way to build a project together as a family and enjoy the satisfaction of completing it.

Nature Notebook

Encourage your children to start a “Nature Notebook” where they can document plants, insects, and animals they observe in your backyard or nearby parks. Each entry can include drawings, descriptions, and interesting facts learned. This activity combines outdoor exploration with scientific observation, helping children develop a keen eye for detail and a deeper appreciation for the environment.

Drama Club at Home

Set up a mini drama club where your kids can write scripts, create costumes, and perform. This could be as simple as reenacting scenes from their favorite books or movies, or as elaborate as creating original plays. Acting helps children express themselves, boosts their confidence, and enhances their understanding of narrative and character development. Plus, it’s a fantastic way for the family to bond and engage in creative storytelling together.

Routine Rules

Last, but not least, you need to try and remember that consistency is comforting for your kids. When they know exactly what they will be doing from the moment they get home until the time they go to bed, they will probably be a lot less stressed and a lot less likely to argue or tantrum when they are asked to do something, whether it be their homework, eating dinner or having a bath. So, take the time to create a routine that really makes them feel secure.

Here’s to fewer post-school meltdowns for your kids, which means a more relaxing evening for you too!

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Surviving Back to School: A Parent’s Guide to Freedom (and Maybe a Little Bit of Guilt) 15 Aug 2024 1:57 AM (7 months ago)

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Ah, back-to-school season. That magical time of year when parents everywhere can finally take a deep breath, pour that second cup of coffee, and maybe—just maybe—finish a thought without being interrupted. After a summer spent refereeing sibling arguments, organizing endless activities, and pretending to enjoy yet another visit to the local splash pad, the idea of a quiet house almost seems like a distant dream. But here we are, on the cusp of that glorious reality.

The Countdown to Sanity

The start of the school year is like a New Year’s Eve countdown for parents. Instead of waiting for a ball to drop, we’re waiting for the school bus to arrive. The excitement builds as we check off each item on the back-to-school list: new backpacks, sharpened pencils, and fresh uniforms (that will somehow end up covered in mud by day three). Every item ticked off is one step closer to that sweet, sweet moment of silence.

But let’s be real. With the kids back in school, there’s also a twinge of guilt. Yes, we crave the quiet, but we’ll also miss their crazy antics (sometimes). That’s why we’re all about finding the perfect balance—like planning our own little adventures to keep that post-summer sadness at bay.

From School Runs to Sun Runs

Now that we’re free from the daily summer chaos, it’s time to think about what to do with all that free time. Maybe you’re dreaming of a weekend getaway, or perhaps a bit of skiing in the French Alps. Because, let’s face it, nothing says “I survived summer” like cruising down a snow-covered mountain while the kids are stuck in school.

And if you’re thinking, “But wait, isn’t that a bit extravagant?”—think again! With Geneva to Les Deux Alpes transfers, getting to the slopes is easier than convincing your child to eat their broccoli. You’ll be carving up the piste before you can say “I packed your lunch, didn’t I?”

Embracing the New Routine

Of course, getting back into the school routine isn’t without its challenges. There are the early mornings, the lunchbox battles, and the inevitable homework drama. But don’t worry—you’ve got this. After all, you survived an entire summer of “I’m bored” on repeat. What’s a little algebra compared to that?

Plus, there’s something oddly satisfying about the routine. The predictable rhythm of school days gives us structure, and the best part? It makes those weekends all the more precious. So go ahead, plan that weekend escape, indulge in a spa day, or just enjoy a quiet cup of tea without a single interruption. You’ve earned it.

As the school year kicks off, remember to embrace the small wins—like a quiet house or an uninterrupted Netflix session. And don’t forget to plan a little something for yourself. Whether it’s a solo adventure or a trip to the Alps, you deserve it after a long summer of playing cruise director.

Here’s to surviving back to school, finding some much-needed freedom, and maybe even enjoying it just a little too much. Cheers, fellow parents—this one’s for us!

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