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How Can We Prevent This? Social Narratives About Sex, Shame, and "Fates Worse Than Death" Are *KILLING CHILDREN!* 17 Apr 2013 | 03:32 am
Ok, so while we're working to eliminate sexual violence can we also spend at least a little time here talking about ending the one thing that makes it even worse. Because sweet mother of pearl, what k...
Women's "Difficulty" with Orgasms Way More a POV Problem Than a PIV One 11 Apr 2013 | 12:31 am
Photo by Flickr user hikingartist. Used under a Creative Commons license. I've said for years that if we judged the end of (hetero) sex as when *she* climaxes instead of when he does then a) we would...
Rules of Desire: Evolutionary Psychologists Getting More Nuanced But No More Effective At Explaining "Hot Girl On Girl Action" 9 Apr 2013 | 03:27 am
Photo by Flickr user The mofoJT. Used under a Creative Commons license. Now if you only the abstract below you might conclude the only possible explanation for women "evolving" same-sex desire was (w...
Chart: The Goldberg Spectrum of Sexual Violence Denial, From Bad Men Project 3 Mar 2013 | 10:35 am
Over at my other blog, The Bad Men Project I wrote Click for larger image In remarks both here and on my other blog I've made snarky references to what I've been calling "The Goldberg Spectrum of Se...
Elizabeth Esther On How to Recognize Unhealthy Personal Boundaries in Yourself and Others After Surviving A Cult 27 Feb 2013 | 11:58 am
One of the things I've been realizing over the last year, something that's shaken me up quite a bit, has been the way my nominally normal if somewhat libidinous upbringing was overlaid with wide, thic...
Administrative Note: Switching to Disqus for Comments 24 Feb 2013 | 11:31 am
Photo of classical disqus discus thrower by Flickr user Happy A. Used under a Creative Commons license. Going into my 8th year of blogging at Real Adult Sex I've got a gazillion comments on thousands...
Actual Researchers Prefer Not to Speculate, But For Ev Psych the EADR Gene Has Gotta Be About Hair and Boobs 24 Feb 2013 | 02:37 am
Image by figleaf published with a Creative Commons license. So some evolutionary biologists, Yana G. Kamberov and Pardis C. Sabeti, recently published a paper about a relatively recent (only 35,000 y...
How the Dominant "No-Sex Class" Paradigm Complicates Sex-Work Acceptance 21 Feb 2013 | 04:47 am
Via Miri at BruteReason there was a bit of a kerfuffle at Jadehawk's Blog over a post about sex work by Jill Filipovic at Feministe called Supporting Sex Workers’ Rights, Opposing the Buying of Sex. ...
De Botton Either Has the Best Spam Filter or the Shortest Memory Span Ever 14 Feb 2013 | 05:25 am
Photo by Flickr user vistavision. Used under a Creative Commons license. Another way de Botton's claim... Erections and lubrication simply cannot be effected by willpower and are therefore particula...
Alain de Botton Not Just Wrong but Dangerous About Meaning of Involuntary Erections, Wetness 13 Feb 2013 | 10:57 pm
I already didn't like "philosopher and writer" Alain de Botton before he got is gig at Psychology Today. Now, via I've got a serious problem with him. Here's why I think you should too. In a post cal...
