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Confidence is not internal 27 Aug 2013 | 11:26 am
From a comment thread at Krauserpua: the latent sadist says: If there is one thing that i know gives men confidence, it is achievement. The confidence i would gain from succeeding in my vocation spil...
The advantages to remaining open hearted 23 Aug 2013 | 02:49 am
Hermitsy says: One thing that I haven’t yet resolved is my beta/needy feelings and need for similar connection that I had with my ex in our honeymoon period. May be you only love once… I enjoy company...
Can you be great? 20 Aug 2013 | 04:19 pm
I’m watching “Amazing Journey – The Story of the Who.avi” right now. In a way you can’t understand me or my blog unless you can feel appreciation for the music of the Who. They embody their emotions ...
How to be loveable 17 Aug 2013 | 12:46 am
From a previous post: Be loveable. That means that inside your mind is a good place to be. It means that you have real love to give. It means that you are playful and funny, are good at reparte, have...
Notable comments around the sphere: 17 Aug 2013 | 12:22 am
From whisper on /r/theredpill regarding Roosh: That’s the problem with guys whose social skills are so good that they start making a living off of them… it overrides their incentive to tell the truth....
How to make an attractive woman fall for you on the first or second date 13 Aug 2013 | 05:51 pm
It’s common sense, really. For some reasons people stray from it. To get a girl to fall for you fast, you just have to get back to basics. 1) Be loveable. That means that inside your mind is a good ...
Why irrational self confidence will fuck up your life 8 Aug 2013 | 12:24 pm
There is a pernicious meme that has taken hold like a dandelion. The meme is that irrational self confidence will aid your self interest. It is pernicious because it is a short term solution that is ...
Step one to stabilize relative happiness: 7 Aug 2013 | 03:16 pm
Following up from the secret to happiness post. Philosophy won’t make you happier, however mental maps that hold information in conflicting ways can fuck up your quest for happiness. In this portion...
The one, final, universal secret to permanent happiness 7 Aug 2013 | 01:15 pm
Well, there isn’t one, of course. See, that’s the trick that the human brain is wired to perform on you. There are universals – all nervous systems are wired for avoidance and grasping, and it would ...
Prediction: 6 months left for RVF 3 Aug 2013 | 12:50 pm
Now that the market for a community of lifestyle enthusiasts has been identified and established, that market niche must be filled. The manosphere had origins in usenet groups that dealt with fast se...