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miss judgment 12 Apr 2011 | 09:58 am
I could not be friends with someone who would take my confidence and use it against me. I walked away again. My son was in high school by this time and she taught him several times over the five yea...
miss adventures 4 Apr 2011 | 03:45 pm
When I was ten years old we moved into the house across the street from Marie, she was two years older than me but thanks to proximity we became instant friends. We went from sneaking treats from her...
minding my own business 25 Mar 2011 | 02:19 pm
The thought of opening my own salon scared the everlovin’ shit out of me. I have such a fear of failure and having had my character assassinated atop that fear made me just want to shut down and disa...
derailed, deranged and dejected but not defeated 15 Mar 2011 | 04:45 pm
It has been nearly a year since I last posted. Sounds like confession. Fortunately I am not catholic so there are no confessions for me to have forgiven. I have to learn to forgive others and forgi...
diggin’ it 27 Apr 2010 | 09:40 am
This is the second time I have been on my computer in almost three weeks. I didn’t think it was possible for me to go this long but apparently it is and I didn’t spontaneously combust or go into DT’s...
points of view 7 Apr 2010 | 09:20 am
I try to be the kind of person who looks at everything from as many perspectives as I can. I make every attempt to see where a person comes from and what their motives are before I make any kind of j...
fair trade 14 Mar 2010 | 06:30 am
“Life isn’t fair and nobody promised it would be.” My therapist had me write this on a post-it and put it on my bathroom mirror. This was about sixteen years ago, I am not currently in therapy altho...
true patriot love 3 Mar 2010 | 05:28 pm
The patriotism is running high here in the great not-so-white north. From sea to shining sea we are celebrating. We love our country and without being gauche or in your face we’ve become a nation o...
herculean efforts 16 Feb 2010 | 06:06 pm
I have always been somewhat anti-Olympics. For as long as I can remember (and at my age it’s a miracle that I can recall anything) there has been arbitrary and unfair judging, the professional vs ama...
pharmaceutical pursuits 9 Feb 2010 | 05:23 pm
I heard this morning that there is a new gum for men that works like Viagra. Seriously? We’re still researching men’s equipment failures when there are real diseases without cures? And not only do ...
